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He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/13/2008 9:46:24 PM
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funny_girl
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When I was growing up I attended a small private school and had a crush on the same boy from 1st grade to 8th not ever knowing if he really liked me back. Overall this boy was very shy but since our class was small everyone knew each other. He lived a few blocks from me and we were in the same carpool. He'd flirt with me in the car by sitting by me and secretly poking me in the side but he never sent me a note or called to tell me he liked me. A few occasions we paired up with another boy and girl from our class and I rode on the back of his motor cycle. I was in heaven that day! Another time, I went to his house and he hugged and kissed me on the check. I'd confessed that I'd always liked him. He continued to flirt with me even when he had a 'girlfriend'. Later, he denied the kiss on the check and used to punch me and tell me he hated me. So, I want to know. Did he like me or not?
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/14/2008 2:12:32 AM
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funny_girl
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If he had a girlfriend some how he got her, why didn't he ever get together with me? Didn't really like me that much? Didn't like, like me? What's a guy thinking or doing in a situation like that? The kiss on the cheek was actually when he was suppose to have this girlfriend.
I didn't just want anyone, I wanted who I thought was the best. So, sometimes boys liked me, but because I didn't give a hoot about them I shrugged it off as if it were nothing/they didn't count and when the boy I did like wasn't interested in me, then I felt I wasn't pretty enough or couldn't measure up to the girls they liked. I'm 5' 7.5" and use to think that was a big problem.
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/14/2008 2:14:57 AM
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funny_girl
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If he had a girlfriend some how he got her, why didn't he ever get together with me? Didn't really like me that much? Didn't like, like me? What's a guy thinking or doing in a situation like that? The kiss on the cheek was actually when he was suppose to have this girlfriend.
Funny but true, later my husband joined a city softball team and guess who was on his team????? I felt like I was in grammar school again! Butterflies and all. My husband teased me and asked me if I wanted him to introduce us! LOL I know I liked him but did this boy like me or not? What was this guy thinking?
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/14/2008 8:12:43 AM
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BlackCapnHarlock
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He liked you.
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/14/2008 10:17:59 AM
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funny_girl
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He liked you.
How do you know this? Are you secretly him now confessing to the torture? LOL
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/14/2008 12:16:55 PM
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APZR
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Why do you agonize over a grade school, prepubescent dating game? Look him up if you want to investigate a relationship.
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/14/2008 1:34:24 PM
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funny_girl
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Why do you agonize over a grade school, prepubescent dating game? Look him up if you want to investigate a relationship.
Because the forum was here to ask. I aint' lookin him up to ask. SILLY! I don't want to know that bad and I certainly don't want a relationship. I'm married! SHesh, why did you bother to answer? que pena!
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/14/2008 10:26:37 PM
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classic case of 'little sister syndrome"
a very close woman friend confessed at one of the HS reunions that she always wanted more than friendship, that she dropped all kinds of hints, always made herself available. My first thought was *ewww*
she was attractive, intelligent, funny, had all the good qualities of femininity, but I put her in the little sister category, and nothing could change that.... she was happily married, and I was very happy for her.
I found out a couple months ago that she just got a divorce.
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/14/2008 10:41:45 PM
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funny_girl
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doer, you lost me there. Yes, I'm a little sister, but I don't get it. esplain por favor...
Is it that little sisters ask these kinds of questions? As I wrote earlier, I'd told the guy I'd always like him. Oh my!!!! I totally just remembered another time that we talked, LOL FLashback!!! One time, my husband and I broke up for 6 months and I'd talked to him then, but more as a friend that wanted some counsel. He just told me that he liked this other girl and they'd broken up. How funny. I just wasn't interested in him anymore to have even thought about him like that but isn't that funny? But I don't get what 'little sister syndrome' is suppose to mean or be. Define plz.
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/14/2008 11:22:51 PM
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she was like my sister, when I looked at her, I saw my "adopted" sister...... didn't want to date my sister, didnt' want to kiss my sister, wouldn't dream of anything close to romance with my sister...... it was how I looked at her.
we hung out, became friends, and somewhere in all of that, I saw her as a friend that was like a sister.
it was nothing she precisely did. it was just who she was to me.
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/15/2008 5:39:14 AM
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ask your husband what he thinks about it. it sounds like typical behavior from a kid that has no rhyme or reason...if he was driving a motorcycle he was prob high school age by then, right? I wouldn't look for any hidden messages but to answer the question about love- no, that isn't how a guy shows love for a girl.
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/15/2008 10:32:27 AM
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it maybe wasn't normal for you, but i don't think its uncommon for kids to like multiple people at the same time or even in the same week - i see it today all the time in youth group. also some guys and girls just flirt for fun. or maybe he just wanted to see if you'd kiss him back, who knows. i am sorry that my post raises more questions than answers!
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/15/2008 11:48:23 AM
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quote:
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she was like my sister, when I looked at her, I saw my "adopted" sister...... didn't want to date my sister, didnt' want to kiss my sister, wouldn't dream of anything close to romance with my sister...... it was how I looked at her.
we hung out, became friends, and somewhere in all of that, I saw her as a friend that was like a sister.
it was nothing she precisely did. it was just who she was to me.
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he was like my sister, when I looked at her, I saw my "adopted" sister...... didn't want to date my sister, didnt' want to kiss my sister, wouldn't dream of anything clos
hehe, I married that one LOL  XXOO
I totally agree with liking multiple people, good answer!
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/15/2008 7:49:56 PM
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The first opportunity to kiss me after we were 'together', he couldn't because he'd only thought of me as a friend or sister in Christ. I love him for that now because he's always been faithful to me. Praise the Lord!
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/15/2008 10:44:14 PM
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doer
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taking another guess at the reasoning of the 1st post....
in all that time that you knew this guy, did you ever say anything - maybe just in jest - that would have bruised his ego, or call him a nickname that (unknown by you) that would have insulted his manhood?
one phrase taken the wrong way by a guy can leave a hidden scar that lasts forever. sometimes the woman will never know, or find out that she has completely innocently reduced (with a word or gesture) they guy down.
sometimes that happens.
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/16/2008 12:07:24 AM
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funny_girl
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I have no idea. If the teasing was bad in any direction, it would of been coming from him. I can still see him running and punching the locker right by my face and saying with a hideous ugly face that he hated me. I really didn't have a clue why. He also punched me in the arm. I complained to my mom and she said he liked me. So I told him that and he didn't get nicer. He avoided me and poor me. I just wanted to ride home and sit by him. LOL He 'got together' with some of the other girls in our class but who knows. I was one of the tallest girls in the class. At time not more than an inch taller than him. Maybe sometimes a little chubby, it varied. Sometimes I wasn't chubby at all. I don't think it had anything to do with that. Our class maybe had 15 students in our class.
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RE: He loved me, He loved me not? - 4/16/2008 12:08:56 AM
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funny_girl
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Funny thought. There was a boy in the grade below me that was REALLY cute, and his family were good friends of mine. My mother told me he had the biggest crush on me and I didn't have a clue. I was comfortable around him but he was pretty short at the time. But it's funny how we see things growing up. I didn't think I was pretty. My father wasn't in my life and probably my father would have told me. When a girl doesn't have her dad in her life to tell her these things, she grows up feeling pretty insecure.
I was really picky about who I liked.
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But this time, I get to watch all the silly games from the side lines. 
Poor guys, mine look like each other and are close enough in age... they'll never know what hit them. 
One girl I really liked and dated for a couple months ended up being married and divorced 3+ times in the past 10 years. I thought she was always kind of "free spirited", ended up she was psycho.
