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he commit adultery - 7/4/2008 4:33:46 AM
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rocknmessenger
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he commited adultery with multiple prostiute and fall in love with one of them. Is been 6mths since his affair started, and we have been separated physically for almost 5 months. He took our children with him. What should I do? I wish to stand on my covenant, is this wrong?
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RE: he commit adultery - 7/4/2008 9:41:49 AM
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Szaftoo
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Welcome.
How old are your children and is there a reason he took them? Are you able to able to take care of them yourself? Do you have anyone you can get counseling with?
There is nothing wrong with wanting to honor your convenant, however, you need to get advice from a professional to protect your children and your joint assets.
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RE: he commit adultery - 7/4/2008 11:11:48 PM
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I think you will need professional advice from a lawyer. You may be able to get legal custody of the children, with a lawyer's help.
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RE: he commit adultery - 7/4/2008 11:30:22 PM
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quote:
ORIGINAL: rocknmessenger
he commited adultery with multiple prostiute and fall in love with one of them. Is been 6mths since his affair started, and we have been separated physically for almost 5 months. He took our children with him. What should I do? I wish to stand on my covenant, is this wrong?
A covenant is between two people, and he broke it. There's only one person keeping faith. He has abandoned you and committed adultery, and there is biblical basis for your marriage being over as well as a practical one. It's not wrong for you to want to be faithful, but there is no relationship to be faithful to, except for your kids.
In your place, I'd get a lawyer and fight to get the kids back and get support from him. Cry out to God for help, talk to your pastor, and get "Love Must Be Tough" by James Dobson from the library. Pray that God will whack this guy upside the head with a holy 2x4 and that he will repent and return to you (get checked for STDs).
I'm sorry, dear one. This should never have happened, but it did. Cry, talk to God about, pull up your socks and go on with your life. Get your kids back and pour your life in to them; they've had a big loss. I am praying for you tonight. (((hugs)))
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RE: he commit adultery - 7/6/2008 10:36:10 PM
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rocknmessenger
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he took them away, because he only wants the kids and not their mother. I dont have the financial needs to support all 3 of them.
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RE: he commit adultery - 7/6/2008 10:40:26 PM
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ta_mosquito
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Moving from Relationships to Marriage.
Thanks!
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RE: he commit adultery - 7/7/2008 10:34:13 AM
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TorchHeart
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he took them away, because he only wants the kids and not their mother. I dont have the financial needs to support all 3 of them.
How did he get the children? Was there a court custody case?
Also, the women he committed adultry with... were they actually prostitutes, or just people he met? If they're prostitutes, is he in an actual relationship with the one you claim he's in love with (did they move in together, or something)? You might have legal courses you could take to get your kids back.
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RE: he commit adultery - 7/7/2008 12:44:50 PM
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jaimestarcross
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You need a lawyer -
not online opinions.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
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RE: he commit adultery - 7/7/2008 1:22:28 PM
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TorchHeart
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quote:
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You need a lawyer -
not online opinions.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
I think I'm in agreement, here.
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RE: he commit adultery - 7/7/2008 4:14:23 PM
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Hislittleone
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Rocknmessenger, do you live in the United States?
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