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HeSustains -> RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread (10/8/2007 10:34:51 PM)
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I am a MD (not a psychiatrist) and have considerable understanding of mental diseases, and I also have the personal experience of having a 31 y/o son who was diagnosed with bipolar disease, and another son who struggled with depression since his teens until he took his own life at the age of 26 one year ago. Bipolar disease and clinical depression are similar in that they are both the result of a chemical imbalance in the brain. It is just as much a medical disease as diabetes or hypertension. Some people with these diseases can be helped through medication, some require counseling, and some require both. Unfortunately, many such as the son that I lost, are incapable of realizing that the depression they feel is not normal, and as a result refuse treatment and hide their feelings of despair. Their depression is sometimes expressed as irritability or anger, as well as withdrawal from others. It is sometimes easy for loved ones of someone suffering from depression to ignore the signals, when the individual affected has learned to hide his sense of despair. After my son's death I found a journal he had written several years earlier, at a time in which he was not outwardly depressed. Several of the journal entries revealed his depression and sense of despair. But the comforting message that I received from his journal was that although in life he had not acknowledged Jesus as his savior, his journal made it quite clear that he had. Because of his depression, he felt that he could not live up to expectations of others, and so was unable to tell others of his faith. We are all subject to the risk of medical or mental problems as a result of our physical existence. Just as God does not always heal physical diseases, He does not always heal mental disease as well. I cannot comprehend why my son was not healed of his depression as I had prayed, but I know in the end that God is in control as He gave me comfort in the discovery that my son had indeed accepted Jesus as his savior. My prayer is that anyone who suffers from depression seek treatment and that loved ones of those so afflilcted encourage treatment so that the one who is suffering can know the love of others and the love of God.
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