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SuzanneDeAz -> RE: Crosswalk Homeschool Support Group Roll Call (12/16/2005 6:10:22 AM)
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Hi, I homeschool my daughter Darlene 15along with her second cousins, Ashley 14, Elyzah 7 and Aden 5. Darlene and Ashley have homeschool with me since 3rd grade. My daughter asked me to homeschool her after I took a needed break from teaching in the ps sytem for 20 years. I invited Ashley, my niece's oldest daughter to join us. That was over six years ago. We started with ACE and now only use ACE for math and science and use Gileskirk for humanities and Literature. Are any of you familiar with Dr. Grant's curriculum and lectures from his classical Christian school in Tenn. If not here is his web site: http://gileskirk.com/ "The Goal of Gileskirk is to provide a strong Humanities or Liberal Arts survey of the disciplines of history, literature, philosophy, theology, civics, art, music, and architecture in four great epochs: Antiquity, Christendom, Modernity, and American Culture (American history)." The girls got ACEd out in their first semester of 8th grade thus we switched to Gilekirk taking a class once a week with other homeschooers and having me suppliment their assingments. Last year they studied Modernity and presently are studying Christendom. I listen to the lectures with the girls and am learning with them. Dr. Grant is a wonderful historian as well as an author of many Christian books. Presently our homeschool family is in crisis. My niece, Michelle, the mother of my great nieces Ashley , Elyzah and baby Elahn and nephew Aden, passed away on Oct. 23rd. She was like a daughter to me and she was like a mother to my daughter Darlene. Each of us are grieving in our own ways. 1. Elyzah (7) Elyzah'sfaith in adults has been challenged as she was told through her mother's struggle with cancer that her mom was going to win the battle with this disease. Her childlike faith has suffered as she has faced so many changes over the last month. 2. Aden (5) Aden has a reduction of appetite and a reduction in engaging in "fun" things. He is not as eager to play on the playground but chooses to stay inside and build churches with his blocks and pray. Since the holidays began a silent cloud of depression has been hanging over him. 3. Ashley (14) After her mother's death, Ashley immediately broke out in shingles and had to be isolated from her siblings. This brought on panic and crying attacks which she deals with almost daily and sometimes hourly. 4. Elahn (2) Elahn started to grieve over the loss of her mother about a month before her death as she sensed something was different as her mother was no longer able to hold, cuddle and play with her. Elahn has bonded with my sister (her grandmother) and calls her "Mommy." While she may be too young to understand, she no doubts feels the loss of her mother. 5. Darlene (15) Darlene is my daughter. Michelle was like a second mother to her and when Darlene was going through a self-identify crisis as an adopted child, Michelle reached out to her and together they formed a special bond. Darlene is now grieving the loss of this very special "mom" in her life. 6. My sister, the children's grandmother and Michelle's mother came over today crying saying she had to ask the clerk in costumer service to remove an item she put in layaway something she was purching for her daughter for Christmas. She planned on buying Michelle a new CD player to listen to Christmas Music and Bible readings while taking chemo as she was suffering from breast cancer. The cancer spred to her lungs in July and she passed away on Oct. 23rd. Life has been very hard. Ashley, the oldest, who is very close to my daughter has not been with us more than a handful of days since her mother died. She wants to go to ps next fall which means more estrangment between her and her siblings as well as my own daughter. I almost died on the eve of Dec. 1 when I collaspe from an eternal bleedout resulting from having a polyp removed during a lower GI/colon exmen. My husband found me as I was passing and called 911 immediately. I was in ICU for a few days and insisted on returning to homeschooling upon release as to keep things normal. The kids just lost their main caregiver their mother, I could not bare to have them think they may lose me as well. As a result of returning too soon I ended up in ER a few days later and now am on bed rest. My sister is now doing the homeschooling with the younger children and Ashley is doing the math and science pace under the guidance of a Chistian woman who just lost her husband do a gun accident six months ago. Please keep us in prayer. Suzanne
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