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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/10/2008 2:16:40 PM
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He sounds so great!! He's right, don't hold anything in, make sure you let it out, especially since you have somebody so great to encourage you through it. You're doing great!
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/10/2008 2:17:39 PM
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It's great to have such a good support, isn't it, Nicole?! Have you had PPD issues with the other kids?
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/10/2008 3:56:21 PM
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Nothing major Donna. Just for the first couple of weeks. If it wouldn't have been for Ryan voicing his concerns for me, I probably would be a wreck. I'm very comforted to know he is here for me. And I know he also prays for me daily and I can tell.
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/23/2008 8:31:54 PM
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PrincessDonna
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I had my 6 week check up today and left really disappointed. I'm doing good, but I'm still not healed. I still have an area that isn't healed - it's inflamed - and has no stitches because my stitches loosened. She gave me another two weeks and told me to go back in if it still doesn't feel right. It honestly feels FINE until she touched it/gave me that exam. I felt the stitches. It wasn't fun. I was really hoping to get a 'clean bill of health' and go back to everything being regular. BUT there is no infection and it'll heal eventually.
She also talked to me about BC. I don't know what to do. I honestly don't want to use anything because my body seriously hates any of that stuff. I'm allergic or irritated or my body flips out if I take any of it. She recommended the IUD or the depo shot. I don't want to stick anything inside of me that'll prevent pregnancy like that - and I have no idea how my body would respond. And, I've heard tons of horror stories about the depo. But, I don't want to get pregnant right away either. It's kind of overwhelming. Right now I pretty much feel a peace about doing nothing, but the looks and comments I get when I say that are pretty... well, critical. They all tell me I'll end up pregnant within a year if I do that. I wish NFP worked well when you breast feed. lol
Did she stitch it up again, Jae??
About the BC...you and Jason need to pray and decide together. But know that if you had problems on the pill (can't remember...), you're likely to have problems with the depo also and you'll just have to deal with them until it's out of your system. Also, the depo can dry up your milk. And IUDs are definitely abortificant...part of their purpose is to irritate the uterine lining so that if an egg does get fertilized, it has nowhere to stick. 
Have you thought of some combination of condoms, spermicide, and FAM (fertility awareness method...being aware of your fertility signs and using something when appropriate...won't work well until your period is back though)?
Overall...pray and do your research.
How are our other new Mommies doing?
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/23/2008 9:25:15 PM
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We are surviving here. Mary gets chocked easily wether nursing or when she gets excited. She always get the hiccups (which she would get in utero as well), acts constipated though she will have bowel movements (some will be very small), and when she is straining and pulling her legs up she strains her little umblical cord and it has been bleeding. Most of the day she just wants to be held.
Me personally I'm hanging in there. Today was a little stressful becuase of other issues unrelated to baby. I'm still very happy to have Ryan here because he is usally able to help redirect me.
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/23/2008 10:32:34 PM
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Mrs.Wifey
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There are non-latex condoms, so that could be an option.
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/24/2008 1:19:19 AM
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Janine, yeah depo is pretty much the only one out there that is non-abortificant. Implanon too, but you have that thing in your arm for three years, and I'm thinking ya'll will want another baby sooner than that. But, with the pill or any other BC, it is easy to keep track of your fertile periods and abstain during those time or use some non-latex condoms. Like I think Ryanne uses NuvaRing, but she does something else when she's fertile. If you wanted to go on a pill, all you have to do is open your pack and see what day you're on, and then abstain from x day until y day....I don't know how many days, but I don't think it's for very long. The NFP and FAM ladies will know that.
With Depo, it seems like it's hit or miss. My best friend bled for 3 months straight. I didn't even spot. Depo is bad for your body in he long run though.
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/24/2008 7:23:42 AM
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There are non-latex condoms, so that could be an option.
Janine,
H E R E is a link which gives some details about the 4 types available in the US.
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/24/2008 9:38:27 AM
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Mrs.Wifey
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Yeah, I use the Nuva Ring but I do the billings method along with it and we use condoms when I could possibly be fertile. So far I haven't ovulated...
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/25/2008 3:28:53 PM
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Everything is just more round and flabby now.
Yes I know what you mean. However I am much lighter than my pre-preg weight. So far I've maintained it and am very pleased.
Oh and for the bleeding. Yes I can't wait for it to stop.
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/25/2008 3:36:12 PM
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Anyone else SHOCKED at the way your body changed? Technically I don't have much to lose before I'm at my pre-preg weight, but yet it feels/looks like much more. Everything is just more round and flabby now. (I'm not complaining, just commenting)
Yes. My rear-end is flat, my tummy is stretch-marked and has some extra saggy skin, and my breasts suffered a lot of tissue breakdown.
But yet it doesn't bother me too bad! It's worth it!
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/25/2008 4:37:20 PM
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I'm not sure what we are going to do. All I know is that I can't wait for the spotting to end (I guess I'm still spotting because I'm breastfeeding) and for the healing to be DONE.
spotting has nothing to do with your nursing....it has to do mostly with your body's healing this time and how much you are doing. If you do too much then it extends that time longer.
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/25/2008 8:34:36 PM
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I am actually getting to a place where even though I do have stretch marks (they have faded a great deal though), some saggy skin on my belly, and my boobs are not as perky I am overall happy with my body. I actually still really like the way my boobs look and they are nothing like what I thought they would be especially after nursing for a year. Don't get me wrong I would much happier if I were 15 lbs. lighter and my thighs were thinner, but you can't have it all now can ya?
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RE: Post Pardum Talk...(cont'd) - 4/25/2008 8:37:16 PM
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Mrs.Wifey
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I am actually getting to a place where even though I do have stretch marks (they have faded a great deal though), some saggy skin on my belly, and my boobs are not as perky I am overall happy with my body. I actually still really like the way my boobs look and they are nothing like what I thought they would be especially after nursing for a year. Don't get me wrong I would much happier if I were 15 lbs. lighter and my thighs were thinner, but you can't have it all now can ya?
I am too. I am a couple sizes bigger then I was but I will not die if I never wear a size 6 again... My body has grown life and it still turns my husband on so I am pretty content.
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But I am going to go back on my Met....that is if Walmart can figure out how to properly fill out my prescrip. from my doctor (it was called in yesterday afternoon...and they've no record of it 
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