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momma_bee -> RE: April PPS Chat Thread (4/15/2008 8:35:30 AM)
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OH How do I handle this... The bus leaves at 7, my shift starts at 7, Poppa has flex time. Since I went back to work, Poppa has put the kids on the bus and then went to work. Poppa gets me up around 5:45 - 6am and the kids between 6-6:15. Until we went to one car. When that happened, we were leaving the house between 6-6:15 and getting BigBee up before we left. So, I was up at 5:30, BigBee was up before 6 and DeeDee was moving shortly afterwards. There was at least 3-5 times they 'almost missed the bus' and one or two 'forgot stuff's' but that was it. I was commenting to folks about how much of an improvement there was in BigBee's behavior between Christmas and Easter. How helpful he was. How he was more patient and kind toward his Momma & Sister. I was crediting his body maturing and he was doing after school stuff. My problem? I think I'm wrong. I tried to be objective and look at things from the outside, but it seems to me that since we have had the second car his behavior has regressed a bit. He is more cranky. This morning he was talking to me about something we needed to discuss TODAY and Poppa told him to get ready and BigBee said that 'now you are going to keep yelling at me and I wasn't doing anything wrong'. He is right. Poppa seems to rile him up. I wonder if that had been setting him up to have a bad day and when we weren't there in the morning, it didn't start out that way for him. Not that I'm blameless. I don't get up well, I hog the bathroom, and the kids can't go in until I'm out (since I leave first). So, I had to the stress level, but if I wasn't there, I don't know if it would lessen. But, when I suggested to Poppa that he leave earlier (so he is home earlier [;)] ) he said that he likes being there to help the kids... Oh, what to do...
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