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RE: How should I bring this up? - 5/12/2008 10:49:02 AM   
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You have security at your church? Where is it? I wanna go there.


http://www.hopedetroit.org/homepage.html

Come by and say, "Hello." You're all invited, the entire website and even lurkers.

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RE: How should I bring this up? - 5/12/2008 1:58:44 PM   
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Well today, the 11th guess who wore tight jeans again???? SHE DID!! My goodness it's no big deal though.

Also, I'm not "scoping women" like it's a shopping mall. I work security on the front door some Sundays and today we arrived at church at around the same time.


i personally think this is YOUR issue that you need to deal with. in another thread, you are talking about how you are attracted to women with "plastic" i.e. fake breasts that are enhanced and larger, and I think that this woman in tight jeans is just a stumbling block for you.

don't look at her. she may be dressing inapproriately, but you have the choice not to look at her jeans. they are, after all, below her waist, and if you kept your eyes at eye level, you'd be fine.

i suggest working on your own heart and figuring out if it's the jeans that bother you or the fact that you are stumbling by looking at them, and not taking responsibility for your own thoughts and actions..stop blaming someone else for the way you choose to feel.

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RE: How should I bring this up? - 5/12/2008 2:13:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: elastic

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ORIGINAL: BlackCapnHarlock

Well today, the 11th guess who wore tight jeans again???? SHE DID!! My goodness it's no big deal though.

Also, I'm not "scoping women" like it's a shopping mall. I work security on the front door some Sundays and today we arrived at church at around the same time.


i personally think this is YOUR issue that you need to deal with. in another thread, you are talking about how you are attracted to women with "plastic" i.e. fake breasts that are enhanced and larger, and I think that this woman in tight jeans is just a stumbling block for you.

don't look at her. she may be dressing inapproriately, but you have the choice not to look at her jeans. they are, after all, below her waist, and if you kept your eyes at eye level, you'd be fine.

i suggest working on your own heart and figuring out if it's the jeans that bother you or the fact that you are stumbling by looking at them, and not taking responsibility for your own thoughts and actions..stop blaming someone else for the way you choose to feel.


1. This is a separate issue.

2. I'm not attracted to this woman or find her attractive at all.

3. I've never checked out this woman.

4. Her jeans are too stinking tight, period.

5. There is no lust or carnal desires in my heart toward this woman.

6. My eyes are at eye level but guess what you can see a person completely coming when they walk down the side walk. Her jeans are too stinking tight for church.

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RE: How should I bring this up? - 5/12/2008 2:21:17 PM   
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if you say so.

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RE: How should I bring this up? - 5/12/2008 9:06:01 PM   
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Her jeans are too stinking tight for church.

So you don't think they are too tight for out of church?

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RE: How should I bring this up? - 5/13/2008 2:51:53 PM   
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Her jeans are too stinking tight for church.

So you don't think they are too tight for out of church?


My goodness, why are ya'll attacking me????? I made a decision I am going to let this go. My church has more pressing issues than her tight jeans. We have folks selling dope around our church and a community that's dying that we need to reach and are reaching for JESUS the CHRIST.

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RE: How should I bring this up? - 5/13/2008 3:21:32 PM   
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My church has more pressing issues than her tight jeans. We have folks selling dope around our church and a community that's dying that we need to reach and are reaching for JESUS the


Exactly.



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