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KatMack -> Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/24/2008 11:31:41 AM)

My son, Marshall, is in first grade in public school and we strongly suspect he is gifted. Summer break is looming and I want to make sure that he doesn't let his skills slide and that I continue to encourage his natural love of learning during that time.

I work full-time outside the home and my mom cares for my children for me while I'm away. I'm thinking of doing a part-time, informal homeschool for him over the summer and was wondering if any of you magnificent full-time homeschools could recommend some resources for me.

--Kat




Jenny-Fair -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/24/2008 11:45:47 AM)

I would strongly recommend against doing anything that will feel like school to him. Bookwork, etc. So I would encourage you to simply facilitate his learning. Watch to see what he's interested in, provide a multitude of materials (not workbooks) for him to experiment with, get him a bug catching/viewing set, collect leaves in a book and write the name of the plants, do plenty of art projects, but basically just let him lead the way and be his facilitator.




cynthia -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/24/2008 12:00:08 PM)

I'd have to agree with Jennifer on this. Give him lots of opportunity to explore and create. If you can, buy him a microscope. TMeeks told us about a microscope, which I plan to get, that is great for younger kids. Here's a link to the thread.

There is a wonderful author, Dr. Ruth Beechick, who writes on homeschooling. She says that studies have shown that children who do lots of science experiments and fun science exploration in early elementary show greater academic progress than children who don't. They develop their thinking skills and love of learning.




Ellie-Mae -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/24/2008 2:01:13 PM)

Buy him a 3 ring binder that he can decorate and title it with "What I Did This summer". Take him to the library and have him pick (each time) out one book on history, one on science and one for fun that he can read on his own or have you read to him. After he is finished, you or he can write one or two sentences about the book and then he can draw pictures to help him remember the books.

Take him on field trips and let him take pictures to put in his notebook.

Help him grow a garden. Take pictures to show how it was done and put them in his notebook.

Cook with him and then put the recipes in his notebook.

There are so many fun ways to keep the learning going in ways that are rememberable and exciting to him..[:D]




his_chosen -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/24/2008 3:42:50 PM)

Gotta agree! Go to the library. Wander the stacks. What sounds fun this week? Leave with a stack of both fiction and non-fiction books. Leave the books out all week. Let him read what he wants. If he wants 16 books on Saturn, go for it.

Find some books on science experiments. Ask quesitons--what do you think will happen when you (fill in the blank). Summer is a great time for those messy experiments!

I'm sure you already plan on doing the library summer reading program?

If you do want to keep the math skills fresh, ditch the workbooks and play games. My favorite is take a deck of cards and remove the face cards. Flip two cards, then add (or multiply) those two numbers. Once you go throught he deck a certain number of times (10mins MAX), add the face cards back in, and play a regular game of cards.




Jenny-Fair -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/24/2008 3:58:23 PM)

Yahtzee is very good for math facts, as well, and Boggle can be fun if you use three-letter words.

Oh, if you don't have letter tiles, go to Walmart and by a couple packs (near the workbooks)--then just let him play with them. He'll be making words and asking for spelling help in no time.

Also, a simple digital camera could be the beginning of all manner of exploration.




timf -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/25/2008 8:33:00 AM)

I want to make sure that he doesn't let his skills slide

This sentence reflects a common view of the educational process often supported by those in the educational industry. Learning is more than acquiring knowledge, and proficiency with knowledge is more that maintaining the intellectual equivalent of athletic tone.

Your son will need your help is develop and maintain godly character. This will be especially important after second grade when school becomes dramatically more tedious.

Your son can start to develop a love of learning that springs from self-direction. Your work with him this summer may help to foster in him an interest and enthusiasm for learning that even public school cannot kill.

The idea that each year of school is critical and any wrong step or missed stage critically impairs the child for life is not accurate. A child can make up in short order almost anything so "missed".

What is critical are the things that shape character and help the child grow in faith




csl7037 -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/25/2008 4:55:47 PM)

Don't mean to intrude but I had to check this out because I'm in the same place as the poster (with a 1st & 3rd grader). I agree that kids need fun and creative opportunities for learning over the summer (and those are some great suggestions above) and that it's important that they get a break - and bonding time with Grandma over the summer should ensure that. But going back to PS (we're in private) in the fall, he wont have the luxury of easing back in, reviewing where he left off and readjusting to the pace of the day and the curriculum. It'll be enough in the beginning just to adjust to the new teacher(s) and new kids. Review and staying on track is vital.

Our plans for the summer include a weekly schedule that'll include something like: play date day/beach day, field trip day, book club day*, movie day, and clean Mommy's house day! We did a book club* last summer with the reading list published by the school's librarian. We had friends over talked about what we'd read or did a fun activity about it, and then went swimming. I think that helped my kids immensely!

Besides reading a lot, I think reviewing those math facts constanty is critical as well. I will keep up the flash cards, we have made up a few math games, and I plan to start ds (entering 2nd grade) on more double digit math as well as the easy multiplication (1x, 2x, 5x, 9x, 10x, and 11x). With dd, entering 4th in the fall, we've got to stay on those multiplication tables!! Ds is lucky because I have all his sister's 2nd grade books and can do a little spelling (word searches and other games) and other things with that. For my dd I am hoping to get my hands on the 4th grade language book. They also have a huge 4th grade project they do where they make a "Nations Notebook". I want to get more of the details on that project and maybe start collecting info over the summer.

Ds also wants to go back to chess club this summer (when soccer is over). And I'm hoping to put dd back in her art classes. He will go to tennis camp and she'll go to cheerleading camp. There'll be plenty of fun but we need to review and that'll probably even include a few workheets. It'll definitely include at least a little structure. You're smart to think ahead. It'll be summer soon and then it'll fly by and sometimes the best of intentions get away from us.




Auben -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/25/2008 5:28:45 PM)

We're going to do a chess thing this summer too. There's a chess club at the high school in August and I'd like to go through this book I have and work on different aspects of the game every week. We'll just talk about some aspect of the game and then play a lot.

I like the idea of having different things every day, a day for gardening, a day for swimming (or soccer), a day for the library, a day for board/card games, a day for nature exploration, a day for arts & crafts.




judii1 -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/25/2008 6:27:12 PM)

I agree with going to the library, too. A lot of them have summer reading programs and the kids who read a certain amount can win prizes at the end of the program.




Jenny-Fair -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/25/2008 6:31:27 PM)

Actually, public schools DO review at the beginning of the year. In addition, forcing 'school' activities on a child is only going to make them dislike them more. Plus, I don't know any adults who have to review their math facts each day or each week in order to maintain them.

For a gifted child, the greatest thing you can give them is the time and resources to explore outside the PS box. I spent 12.5 years in the school system as a gifted child and my greatest enemy was boredom. I think 9 months of that in a year is plenty.




PrincessDonna -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/25/2008 6:43:22 PM)

Most curricula are written with review materials at the beginning, so unless the teacher is skipping those, or making their own, there will be review at least the first couple weeks while kids are settling back into school.

Lots of good ideas here. I'll use some of them myself, I think![:D] I have one boy finishing 2nd grade and doing well. He will be reading for an hour each day during the little ones' nap time, and helping me work with his 3 year old sister on letters and sounds. My other boy will likely be held back in first grade (we hope!). He will be reading or writing (copy work) at least 30 minutes every day, and I will be working with him on his phonics and addition facts. He is a kid who needs constant repetition, so we will give him that.

I may do a card or dice game with the boys, but will probably do it individually, with the older working on multiplication and the younger working on addition. If I do it together, it will become too much of a competition thing with them, I'm sure.




LMKH -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/27/2008 11:48:09 AM)

If he is gifted, I seriously doubt his skills will slide any more than any other child. In this case, i would highly recommend against summer schooling a public schooler. I would only do it in areas he was behind in. Worst part is, if he goes back and is ahead of eveeryone else, he will be soooo bored. the schools will not allow him to move ahead. Even if they claim they will differeniate, I have never heard of a school actually making good on this promise.

My children are all gifted. My oldest stayed in public school and is in the acclerated program and the highly gifted program. (the accelerated one is for basically the top 30% and the highly gifted, you had to be above 96th percentile). It is all okay, but I wish I had just brought him home. The public schools were fine and all, K-2. But then 3-5 grades when the testing started, they really dropped the ball. I did bring home my dd to homeschool. She was not as far ahead as DS at the end of 2nd grade. I was not even bringing her home for academics. Her brother is a grade older. But by the end of the first year, she had caught up to him. To years later, even with him being in all the gifted and accelerated programs available, she passed him by. Before you think that we just have bad schools, our schools are ranked top in the state. It is just that there is only so much that can be done when not only do you have an entire class learning along with you, but when the sitrict, state, and federal government are sending constant paperwork, testing requests, curriculum changes, etc.

SO..what I am saying is, unless your child has a deficiency, let him do what he wants over the summer. Who knows..if he is like my son, thhat might be reading science books, etc. But regardless, he has such little time to figure out who he is, what he likes, and so on. and be a child. I would just let him in this limited amount of time.




singinglibby -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (4/28/2008 3:19:21 AM)

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SO..what I am saying is, unless your child has a deficiency, let him do what he wants over the summer. Who knows..if he is like my son, thhat might be reading science books, etc. But regardless, he has such little time to figure out who he is, what he likes, and so on. and be a child. I would just let him in this limited amount of time.


I agree. I think that kids just need that time away from learning...that break to just be a kid and chill for a little while. Almost all of my school years where in public schools, with 3 months off in the summer, 3 days off in the fall, 2 weeks off for Christmas and a week and a half off for spring break and..guess what? I did just fine in school [;)]




Christian30 -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (5/2/2008 9:54:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LMKH

If he is gifted, I seriously doubt his skills will slide any more than any other child. In this case, i would highly recommend against summer schooling a public schooler. I would only do it in areas he was behind in. Worst part is, if he goes back and is ahead of eveeryone else, he will be soooo bored. the schools will not allow him to move ahead. Even if they claim they will differeniate, I have never heard of a school actually making good on this promise.

My children are all gifted. My oldest stayed in public school and is in the acclerated program and the highly gifted program. (the accelerated one is for basically the top 30% and the highly gifted, you had to be above 96th percentile). It is all okay, but I wish I had just brought him home. The public schools were fine and all, K-2. But then 3-5 grades when the testing started, they really dropped the ball. I did bring home my dd to homeschool. She was not as far ahead as DS at the end of 2nd grade. I was not even bringing her home for academics. Her brother is a grade older. But by the end of the first year, she had caught up to him. To years later, even with him being in all the gifted and accelerated programs available, she passed him by. Before you think that we just have bad schools, our schools are ranked top in the state. It is just that there is only so much that can be done when not only do you have an entire class learning along with you, but when the sitrict, state, and federal government are sending constant paperwork, testing requests, curriculum changes, etc.

SO..what I am saying is, unless your child has a deficiency, let him do what he wants over the summer. Who knows..if he is like my son, thhat might be reading science books, etc. But regardless, he has such little time to figure out who he is, what he likes, and so on. and be a child. I would just let him in this limited amount of time.

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My children are all gifted. My oldest stayed in public school and is in the acclerated program and the highly gifted program. (the accelerated one is for basically the top 30% and the highly gifted, you had to be above 96th percentile). It is all okay, but I wish I had just brought him home. The public schools were fine and all, K-2. But then 3-5 grades when the testing started, they really dropped the ball. I did bring home my dd to homeschool. She was not as far ahead as DS at the end of 2nd grade. I was not even bringing her home for academics. Her brother is a grade older. But by the end of the first year, she had caught up to him. To years later, even with him being in all the gifted and accelerated programs available, she passed him by. Before you think that we just have bad schools, our schools are ranked top in the state. It is just that there is only so much that can be done when not only do you have an entire class learning along with you, but when the sitrict, state, and federal government are sending constant paperwork, testing requests, curriculum changes, etc.


Our experience too (similar, at least). My youngest is graduating this year and we both work. Of my 3 children, 2 are gifted. The one we kept in ps the longest fell much farther below her potential. I'd rather be poor than have my kids in ps, but that's just our situation.

Back more on topic... I'd keep summer learning opportunities different than school, rather than worrying about keeping skills. He might be rusty when he goes back, but will readjust quickly. The microscope was a great idea. Try to stay in tune with his interests and respond accordingly.




sen10tious -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (5/2/2008 5:35:06 PM)

I am not totally clear on who would be doing what—do plan on working with you son after hours, or were you going to assign your mom homeschool stuff?

Actually from the granny side of the story, it might be easier for her to care for him on all those long days if they did have a “project” they could explore together. But that topic would be dictated by your mom’s skills, wishes, and abilities. You don’t get to pick; it would have to be something they'd work out within the frame of their relationship.

If you meant you wanted something for you to teach him, my advice would still be similar in that the topic and activities ought to be something that matches the interests and abilities you two can build on. As long as he reads something every few days, (and as long as that 'something' isn’t destructive morally—felt a need for disclaimer ‘cuz you never know who is lurking) it doesn’t really matter what he reads; he’ll still be moving forward.

Mostly, you should be using the summer to expose him to the way adults conduct good lives- how they work, how they worship, how they study, how politics impacts them, etc. because that is the stuff that homeschoolers learn; and the stuff that classroom kids won’t get from their peers.


Edited to add:
Thought I might need to clarify that last paragraph - I did not that you give him adult activities; I meant adult role models and mature thought processes that he won't get when surrounded by kids all day.




MrsDC -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (5/2/2008 8:21:49 PM)

My personal recommendation for grandma summer-schooling a 6-8yo boy...
break the Nintendo [;)]
plan a trip to the local fire station
visit the police station
visit a Christian radio station
sign up for a hands-on art workshop at a local college or community center or senior center
play in the mud at least twice...once on purpose
make cookies
bake bread
look at old photos and hear about Great Grandpa Chris who pushed a wheelbarrow all the way across the US
shoot the backyard fence with water guns filled with tempera paint (it really does wash off)
read the entire Tucket adventure series (by Gary Paulsen) or listen to it on tape
listen to jazz in the park
play frisbee
go fly a kite (preferably homemade)
play number games, eye spy and 20 questions whenever you're stuck in the car
watch the Princess Bride at least 3 times (personal preference, but I think grandma will agree!) and don't forget to BEEP when Indigo Montoya swears at the end.

...and don't do a single worksheet!!!!

-- Rebecca




csl7037 -> RE: Summer Homeschooling a Public Schooler (5/12/2008 4:00:00 PM)

I'm finding some neat things at summerbookcompany.com




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