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Militaryops173 -> I need help.. please look (4/25/2008 6:29:32 PM)

okay well during this school year ive had trouble dealing with kids and i said a statment that i was going to over dose never really ment it but ayways i was sent out of school up to the hospital everyday for group therapy in the mean time after the program i would go to scool from 2-4 pm everyday monday through thursday to make up my work, well this teacher is a coordinator and acculy my girlfriends mother is also a teacher and he went back and told her, well long story short me and my girlfriend kimberly used to hang out every weekend and all of a sudden things just went down hill for me and its like her parents are divocred but both remarried and they both just hate me all of a sudden its not that i wanan get htem introuble i love htem all to death its just worring me because i called and they threatened me and had the cops come to my house and suspended hre cell phone number and im not sure what to do, i cry every night and i still cant eat,drink or anything without it comming back up and its just i really need help with this, i know its not the best idea but im going to probley just go out from 12am-4am to go see her without anyone knowing, and i have faith in the lord that he will let this happen so i wont be miserable anymore, but any advice would help thanks! btw im 17



Jenny-Fair -> RE: I need help.. please look (4/25/2008 6:42:08 PM)

If you are still in counseling, that would be a good place to talk about this.

Perhaps the Lord felt you needed to be away from her for awhile in order to get everything else straightened out. One thing is for sure, if you use deception, manipulation, or you dishonor your parents or Kimberly's parents, you won't have God's blessing on what you do.



crankius -> RE: I need help.. please look (4/25/2008 6:50:22 PM)

I'm sorry you are going through all of this. I'm sure it is confusing and frustrating.

You are in group therapy, according to your post--are you also in one-on-one counseling?

What about your family? Do you live with your mom and dad?



lightshineon -> RE: I need help.. please look (4/25/2008 7:27:55 PM)

first, know you are not alone, many kids, my dd came home from school crying today. Is there an online highschool in your area? You can take courses from highschool online in oklahoma, and I am sure other states. it is free. Things will get better, do not give up. Things I felt hopless about six months ago, have faded in my memory Do not hurt yourself, you are wonderful you. continue in therapy, pray, and know we will pray for you. What grade are you in? find courage within your spirit to never give up.



SD456 -> RE: I need help.. please look (4/25/2008 9:32:37 PM)

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okay well during this school year ive had trouble dealing with kids and i said a statment that i was going to over dose never really ment it but ayways i was sent out of school up to the hospital everyday for group therapy in the mean time after the program i would go to scool from 2-4 pm everyday monday through thursday to make up my work, well this teacher is a coordinator and acculy my girlfriends mother is also a teacher and he went back and told her, well long story short me and my girlfriend kimberly used to hang out every weekend and all of a sudden things just went down hill for me and its like her parents are divocred but both remarried and they both just hate me all of a sudden its not that i wanan get htem introuble i love htem all to death its just worring me because i called and they threatened me and had the cops come to my house and suspended hre cell phone number and im not sure what to do, i cry every night and i still cant eat,drink or anything without it comming back up and its just i really need help with this, i know its not the best idea but im going to probley just go out from 12am-4am to go see her without anyone knowing, and i have faith in the lord that he will let this happen so i wont be miserable anymore, but any advice would help thanks! btw im 17


Dear Militaryops,
I know how hard it is to care so much for someone. My son went through the same thing you are going through when he was 19. The circumstances are different, but when his first love broke up with him he couldn't stop getting sick and crying all night long.

Cry out to Jesus and He truly will hold you and help you get through this. He truly has your best interest in mind. Let go, dear heart, let go of it all and let Jesus have this situation. It's very hard to do and takes a lot of courage, but He will give that courage to you if you ask. Respect her parents' wishes and Jesus will be better able to work what He wants in all of it.

I know it feels like death 3 times over, but each minute will pass, and then each day will pass, and slowly things will feel better. You have a huge, phenomenal God who can cause all of our heartaches to work out for the best in our lives.



lightshineon -> RE: I need help.. please look (4/26/2008 7:34:34 AM)

Hi, how are you today? I hope things are getting better. They will, being only 17, you are just beginning life, and changes go on and on, good and bad, but we survive. It will get better day by day. Keep busy, running whatever. Just keep your mind and body preoccupied. Praying God's healing upon you.[:)]



shadowspring -> RE: I need help.. please look (4/28/2008 10:53:47 PM)

I'm adding you to my prayers too, militaryops. [sm=praying.gif]

I am so sorry that you are going through such a painful time. May the Lord be to you a true friend. He is the one who will not leave you when you are hurting or kick you when you're down. Focus on pouring your heart out to him, and getting your school work done.

Healing will come. Our God is faithful.



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