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lewbcw -> Factors Weighed for Marriage (4/29/2008 12:39:19 AM)
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Hello Ladies,
I do not normally read this section much, nor post here, so please do forgive me if I have repeated a question that is already well addressed. (Feel free to refer me to any previous and/or ongoing posts that may have already covered this topic.)
I am curious what factors the single Christian women here weigh when considering two things: i.) Whom to marry?; and ii.) When to marry?
Do you find there to be any qualities you absolutely want in a mate (aside from their strong faith in Christ)? And two, when do you feel is the "right" time to marry if there is one. What goes into your thought processs concerning the timing of marriage? ...And lastly (this correlates with the second question), are there any things you absolutely want yourself to have or be at the time of your marriage?
That last question is actually something I have been thinking greatly about lately and could probably even create a separate post about. While I would absolutely love to have a wonderful marriage relationship with someone special, there are also many things about myself that I feel God is still working on and would be more ideal to have completed at the time of marriage. Do you ever have these types of thoughts about wanting to have a certain level of spiritual maturity and closeness to Christ before marriage? I have heard many singles and couples discuss the importance of financial security, which I think is very important (for a male to be an adequate provider) and other factors of the like, but for me, I have felt more and more that the most important thing God wants from me is a solid relationship with Him prior to marriage. Does that resonate with any of you all? What types of thoughts have you had about where God might want you to be, or do, or have, prior to marriage or even potentially engaging in a dating relationship?
I greatly look forward to hearing your answers and thank you ladies in advance. [:)]
-lewbcw
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