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Darien8869 -> RE: What really turns you off in women? (6/22/2008 1:34:02 AM)
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I know many ladies think its superficial for guys to care about looks and that we should love them just the way they are.
Yeah, but the problem is they don't want to let us see them the way they really are. They paint everything like their face was an old barn or something. and they think we like all that fake color on their eyelids, and after kissing them we feel like we've been rolling in the mud or something from all the makeup.
I HATE MAKEUP on a woman. It's not natural, it's fake, it's deceptive to hide behind all that stuff. Besides If I'm attracted to a girl, I LIKE the way SHE looks, not the way she TRIES to look. I want to show her off without the people I'm showing her off to, thinking I found her on a street corner somewhere.
I can't stand women who will not be submissive to their mate. I would never treat a woman any way except as my equal, my love, my queen, BUT if a compromise can't be reached and a decision has to be made, it IS the MAN's place to have the final word. I honestly think this is part of the reason a lot of men are gay today. Women have become so modern in their appearance, their attitudes, their ambitions, their "rights" and so on. liberalism, feminism and modernism has completely changed the way women are today. Hey, I mean it worked out great all those centuries when it stayed like God said himself that He wanted it to be. When you go messing around with that, you can expect disaster. High divorce rates, single parent homes being the "norm" and men being submissive to their wife. Not this old boy!
MATERIALISM: This is a big one for me. One of my ex-fiancees remained friends with me several years after we broke up. Last time I talked to her, her husband was working three jobs, she was working and complaining they just couldn't make ends meet. Her job alone was a great paying job...glad I didn't marry her. They had a brand new very nice home, two new SUVs, all new furniture and wanted more more more.
Some of you mentioned low libido as a turn off. I can understand that, but I also have a problem with the other side of that coin. TOO MUCH LIBIDO. It seems women today aren't as much on the low side as some might think. All they think about is sex, kinda like a 13 year old boy. Sex is well, you know........ BUT I don't want to be chained up and used as a slave either. I want a woman who is happy with what I can give her and isn't interested in going out somewhere else to find more.
DIVORCE: I can't help it, but when I see a single woman who has been divorced the first thing I think of is "if she divorced one man, she will divorce another". That reaks of a lack of committment. Oh and that's another point, I've heard so many women talk about men being afraid of committment. I've been engaged like eight times now and in EVERY CASE it was the woman who got cold feet and backed out. One of those only nice days before our wedding. (her husband works three jobs....poor stiff)
That being said, a widow with children is fine. unless of course her husband died of "suspicious causes" I think most everything else for me has already been mentioned on this thread. Very interesting topic and we seem to be all in one accord on this issue.
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ORIGINAL: denbert
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Now if we could just keep em outta the Men's threads. [:)]
Actually I think this is one thread we should force them to read. Maybe it would educate them a bit.
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