Szaftoo
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I do believe there are generalizations that can be made about both genders, but tendencies towards certain behavior doesn't justify or excuse piggishness.
I agree, men and woman are wired differently which is what makes us work well together. I think when we reocnize and accept our differences life runs more smoothly.
However, I agree we can't use it as an excuse to be jerks.
Part of the problem I see though is folks not assuming men are scum. They don't see the bad behavior as scummy at all and THAT'S the thing I have a problem with. Women being OKAY with that kinda behavior. I sometimes even hear "I don't nes. approve of it BUT..."
I also am not entirely convinced in the differences between men and women based on my own experience. Such as the men are visual creatures but women aren't as I mentioned. Cause I...the first thing I look for on a fella is if I think he's good looking (that's not ALL that matters of course but that's for another thread lol).
This is not about making excuses or accepting bad behavior, it's about admitting we are different. What about women who get crabby when it's that time of the month or lose it when they get bad hair cuts?
Men are much more visual than woman and it started in the garden when Adam liked what he saw. I agree we are also into looks but it takes more than looks to keep us interested. It is what attracts us initially but they better have more going on than that.
Not all behevior is about being a man or woman, some people are just not nice and use their gender as an excuse.
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