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RubySparkles -> I'm bored (6/15/2008 1:46:56 PM)

I'm bored of prayer and bible study and church. It doesn't make me happy, it's just stuff that I do because it's the right thing to do. It's boring, it's routine so I'll miss several days because I can't be bothered. Can anyone advise me please? Thank you



Roberta_ -> RE: I'm bored (6/15/2008 3:26:46 PM)

Sounds like you are going through a Spiritual dry spell. I would continue to do those things and pray that your Spirits will be lifted again soon.



Walker311 -> RE: I'm bored (6/15/2008 3:39:20 PM)

I get tired of going to work. Sometimes I wish that I didn't have to eat or sleep. I get tired of being nice and I wish I could tell some people what is really on my mind but I don't.

There are many things that tire me or bore me but I do them because it is the right thing to do.

God did not promise us a rose garden here so remember this. Doing the right thing will always be right.



Prairiehiker -> RE: I'm bored (6/15/2008 3:48:09 PM)

http://www.thegodjourney.com/podcast.html

Listen to some of these podcasts. It helps renew your relationship with God not in a "obligatory" way but more in a walking hand and hand with Jesus in an actual relationship.



4IMPersuaded -> RE: I'm bored (6/15/2008 4:43:26 PM)

Darlin', If you are being religious for religious-ness' sake, then no wonder you are bored! There is a certain logic to the "fake it 'til you make it" mentality, but I don't suggest that over the long term. Sometimes you just need to take your feelings to God and ask Him to release the joy and awe (back ?) into your relationship with Him.

Another good choice is to change your routine. I am a HUGE fan of Beth Moore, so find a church that is offering one of her studies-- she will help you see God's word in a fresh and applicable way. If she's not your bag, though, find something else-- change it up! There is an old saying, "when you feel that God is far away, guess who moved" is likely applicable here. He ALWAYS offers a way back to Himself-- He desires a real, authentic relationship with you above all else. He is right where you left Him and will hear you when you cry out-- the Word shows repeats this theme over and over.

Though you did not say, I suspect that there is an ongoing stronghold of sin in your life that is keeping you at arm's length from God. I say that not out of judgement-- I say that because I've been there. The HS, if you are saved, has likely been plucking your concience about it. Listen to that voice, dear one-- It leads to freedom!



mvic -> RE: I'm bored (6/15/2008 5:22:51 PM)

RubySparkles,

I sympathise with you. Going to church, praying etc .. should NOT be a task like going to work or doing your various jobs at home. Yet ... I've known many churches where you go there and just sit as a spectator. The people at the front "do their thing", the choir sings (awful hymns sometimes) and then I leave church wondering why I went in the first place. On one occasion the preacher went on for so long saying nothing that I nodded off - the people I was with at the time never forgave me for that. It was their regular church and they said he always went on for ages !!!

So what should you do?

If the place you go to doesn't allow you to participate fully find another church.

Churches should be places where we pray together, praise together, learn from each other and support each other in our journey with God. They are not cinemas where people just sit back to be entertained (or not).



pberardi -> RE: I'm bored (6/16/2008 2:03:51 PM)

I noticed that you did not mention that you were bored with reading your Bible. Perhaps you do not spend enough time alone with the Lord. I have fallen into this pit as well. Church, group Bible Studies, prayer meetings are all great ways to connect with fellow believers. But only alone time with God in his Word can build your relationship with him. When you have a relationship with Christ it cannot be boring. Find out what God wants from your life by reading and meditating on his Word. He will speak to you and your boredom will go away as quickly as if you were at the circus.



RubySparkles -> RE: I'm bored (6/16/2008 4:55:52 PM)

Thank you for your answers. I notice that my thread has been edited. I would just like to say that those other comments are not true. I'm just saying this is how it's been for the last couple of weeks, it's not always like this.

Yes you're right there's lots of things that get boring but I just get on with it and it might become fun again. But the fun is not the point. Actually I have plenty of time alone with God because there is not much fellowship at my church. I used to have a small group but I switched churches. Now I feel I can't leave my current church because people will notice.



thedivabrat -> RE: I'm bored (6/16/2008 7:04:01 PM)

If you are still spending time w/the Lord and are praying,reading your bible and such maybe He is blessing you w/His silence for a time. Maybe it would help if you could find someone to pray or study with or just talk about spiritual things. Also, I don't understand your comment about leaving your church for another.



jbird56 -> RE: I'm bored (6/16/2008 8:12:28 PM)

Hi RubySparkles. You are right - it should not be boring. When I went to church, each service was a glorious experience, with a lot of emotion. If you feel you are not at the right church for you, then I suggest you go to another church, even if the people notice. Maybe you can alternate churches for variety.

A long time ago, when I was new to the Word, before each quiet session with the Bible, I would pray for the Lord to please open my eyes and mind so that I would be able to truly understand His Word. I did this each day for a full year. One day, all of a sudden, it was as if I were reading a completely different book - I understood everything so clearly. What a joy reading the Bible was after that. Maybe you could try a prayer like that.

It's true that what someone above said - that you might be going through a dry spell. Have you considered doing volunteer work? Sometimes putting yourself out there, getting out of your own head & helping others can help open you to joy.

If this has only been going on for a few weeks, maybe it won't last. Speak to God about how you feel; ask Him to open your heart to His love and joy. Listening to podcasts is a good suggestion. Maybe you just need more activity. My church had many outreach programs that people could get involved in - breakfast programs for the homeless, dinners & "food/clothing stores" for AIDS patients, etc. Maybe you would feel good taking part in something active like that.

Sometimes the minister is just not the right one for you. Maybe he is just not able to reach you (not your fault). Sometimes you need to find the right minister who is good at speaking to the people. And you said it yourself - you want a more interactive church. There is nothing wrong with that. Look for what makes you feel closer to God.

You will get past this dry period. Keep your faith strong. Keep praying.

Psalm 27:14 Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart; and wait for the Lord.



CherishedbyGod -> RE: I'm bored (6/16/2008 9:16:06 PM)

Ask the Lord to set your heart on fire for Him. He loves prayers like that!

Spend time in the gospels studying Jesus and His ways with us as depicted in those precious books. Get to know Him more and more. Notice how He wept, gireved, sighed and rejoiced with those dear souls. Talk to Him about everything...Seek Jesus in His Word; ask the Holy Spirit to reveal Him to you, more and more.

Those are requests He cannot help but answer...Oh, how He loves those types of prayers............



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