Community is Good Medicine
By Sharon W. Betters
TODAY’S TREASURE
"I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first today until now." - Philippians 1:3-4
Sometimes dark clouds hover over my heart every morning. Often, I cannot pinpoint why I feel blue. My typical response to such feelings is to make a to-do list of every task facing me that day (including loading the dishwasher, folding laundry, every tiny little job), crossing off each item as I complete it, and feeling productive and mentally stronger with each accomplishment. Sometimes that trick works, but typically the blueness reminds me that I need community. I have learned to call a friend with no agenda except to catch up and see how I can pray for her, and sometimes learning a practical way, I can encourage her as well. Community is good medicine. In the business of life, I sometimes forget that I am made for community, and when I don’t intentionally cultivate community, something is off in my heart. Life-giving relationships happen in the community.
Paul loved the community. Community threads its way throughout the Scriptures with regular exhortations from Paul to love one another, encourage one another, serve one another, forgive one another, and though not in these words: need one another. The gift of community is one of the priceless blessings God promised Abraham in Genesis 12 and 15. That same gift is ours when we love Jesus (Galatians 3:29). God promised Abraham that He would create a great community out of Abraham’s seed and that members of that community would be blessed and would be a blessing to others. God keeps that promise every time we gather as Christians and every time we offer biblical life-giving encouragement to others. When we encourage others, we become a conduit of grace that encourages those very hurting people to offer encouragement to someone else.
Another oriented life happens. Paul fondly remembers the Philippian congregation as a family that experienced great joy because their relationship with Jesus connected them to one another. Joy is a theme throughout this little letter, and through these words, Paul teaches this congregation how to continue to cultivate a community that ultimately glorifies God. One of God’s gifts to His people is the local church family. He keeps many of His promises through His people. Our church family walked the pathway of grief with us in ways we didn’t know we needed. They became God’s hugs, shoulders to cry on, His hands that cared for our physical needs and handed us tissues when we didn’t realize that tears covered our cheeks. I imagine God whispering to one of His children, “Sharon thinks I’ve abandoned her. You be in my arms and hug her. You be my heart and love her. You be my hands and serve her.” Each one was a treasure of encouragement that helped turn my heart toward Him and cultivated a strong community. We need to be willing to accept the encouragement and help of others. In time, I wanted to offer others this encouragement that had been given to me. Know that one day you can encourage another hurting person in a way that will equip them to offer that same help and hope to someone else.
LIFE-GIVING ENCOURAGEMENT
Are you feeling blue today? Perhaps the missing treatment in your heart’s medicine cabinet is a connection with a trusted friend. Or, maybe it’s time to offer another friend encouragement that helps turn their heart toward Jesus. We’ve asked who is in your village. One of the answers needs to be your local church body. Do you have a church family, a community that you can depend on when you are hurting, a place you receive guidance and encouragement? The time you spend with this community cultivates relationships that will equip you for the one another that each one of us needs. Such one-another-ing encourages new life, deepens our love for one another, and encourages us to pass on that love to others.
PRAYER
Dear Father, thank You for the gift of the covenant community. Show me how to be a channel of Your compassion in my local church so that others benefit from Your presence in me.
More free resources for help hope & healing:
Treasures of Encouragement, Women Helping Women By Sharon W. Betters
Treasuresofencouragement.org Learn how God sends treasures of encouragement to help turn hearts toward Jesus and how the beauty, privilege and power of biblical encouragement is a means to invite others to trust the Lord’s goodness and faithfulness in the mundane moments and especially in the broken places of life. Free supplemental resources.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Sharon W. Betters is a mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, pastor’s wife, and cofounder of MARKINC Ministries, where she is the Director of Resource Development. Sharon is the author of several books, including Treasures of Encouragement, Treasures in Darkness, and co-author with Susan Hunt of Aging with Grace. She is the co-host of the Help & Hope podcast and writes Daily Treasure, an online devotional.
For more from Daily Treasure please visit MARKINC.ORG.
Originally published Thursday, 13 July 2023.
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