Making decisions are part of the natural rhythms of life. There are the little things that we have to choose on a daily basis. But then, there are the bigger decisions and those tend to be more spaced out over time: things like changing career paths or planning a family. Those are some of the big kahunas and, naturally, we put a lot more thought into those decisions.
Whether we choose one thing, or we choose nothing, we still make a decision! That is what used to make decision-making so difficult for me. I used to take so much time to decide if I was going to make one choice or another. I weighed all my options. I wanted to make sure that I got things right in my walk with the Lord.
But somewhere along the way in my path of wanting to please God, I forgot about His grace and mercy.
Enveloped within the folds of grace and mercy is a sweet space of love, hope, and forgiveness. We totally need that! God knew that when he created us. So, He doesn't pull away from us in those moments when He is leading us to go left, but we decide to go right. Instead, He is faithful to complete the work he has started in us. He always reroutes us back to center. Always.
Maybe you are the way I used to be, and you're afraid of making a decision about something because you don't want to have any regrets. Or, maybe you've made so many bad decisions that you just want to make a right one for a change.
My friend, grace. Mercy. They are for you. They are for me. God lavishes both on us in overwhelming, heaping amounts and he does so freely.
We are going to have to make decisions. There's just no getting around that. So, here are seven biblical principles you can rely on when you are in those moments of making the hard decisions and the tough calls.
"And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them." Romans 8:28
Since you are in Christ, God is going to use everything that happens to you for your good. This isn’t circumstantial! This is a beautiful seal over every decision in your life! Knowing that good is going to result from your decisions, regardless if things pan out the way you imagined or not, should give your heart and mind immediate peace.
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"Commit your actions to the Lord, and your plans will succeed" Proverbs 16:3
This is a promise that I have personally wrestled with, deciding if it really was a truth over my life or not. However, all of God’s promises are yes and amen for those who are in Christ! When we say “Lord, have your way with this situation in my life, let your will be done” there WILL be success! God gets no glory from you failing. He receives no honor by not coming through for His children. Success to God may not always look the way we envision it looking, so it’s best not to concern ourselves with the details. Instead, we should focus on placing our full hope and desires in Him and trust that he will show up on our behalf.
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“Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.” Proverbs 19:20
It's incredibly easy to feel like you are alone when you have to make a choice that could really impact your life, but if you have trusted family members, friends, and mentors around you, you aren't alone! Seek out the wisdom from those around you. They have gone through their own experiences and have seen the Lord move in their lives so that they can be a witness to you. There may be something that you are missing, or a viewpoint that you simply overlooked that they can shed light on. We don't have all the answers because we aren't supposed to. God created us for community so that we could love and help fill in the gaps for one another.
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“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.” Isaiah 43:19
When we are faced with a decision, we can often feel like the options before us are in fact the only options. But what if we stepped back and asked the Lord for His angle? God can totally be doing something behind the scenes that you’ve never thought of or even imagined. Where we see a wasteland, he sees new streams of living water. God is able to create new and better paths for you! So, remember this when you feel like your options are limited.
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"Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each morning" Lamentations 3:23
The decisions we made yesterday, the ones we will make today, and the ones that have yet to come tomorrow are covered in the Lord’s mercy. Take time to let go of what has passed, to use wisdom for today, and not worry about tomorrow. While there are consequences to every decision we make, we don't have to carry those things one day to the next. God’s mercy covers everything! Lamentations 3:23 is the promise from the Lord that regardless of what you do or don’t do, that no matter what does or doesn’t happen, you get to begin each day anew with a new level of understanding, wisdom, and growth.
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"Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do and he will show you which path to take." Proverbs 3:5-6
I used to fear making certain decisions because some aspects didn't make sense to me, or I didn't see how things would realistically work. As a result, there were many times when I would stall. I would say that I was waiting on the Lord as my reason for not moving. Honestly, that said more about my trust in the Father than it did about my own decision-making skills.
Certainly, there are times to wait on the Lord’s leading. We should constantly be seeking his will, and sometimes that means patiently waiting. There are also times when we will need to move, even when we don't fully understand what we are doing and where we are going. Spend time with your Abba Father and allow Him to show you that you can indeed trust what he is doing and where he is taking you even when you don't understand.
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"So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most." Hebrews 4:16
Most times, we can find ourselves crippled under the weight of decisions we have to make. The writer of Hebrews knew this, so he reminded us of the truth that we can go to the throne of our Heavenly Father and receive mercy and grace when we need it the very most. This is such a comfort because when it comes to decision making, we can feel like we are backed into a corner, with no way out of a situation. Thank God that it gives him great pleasure to help us in whatever circumstances we find ourselves.
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Britnee is a free-spirited, Old Navy-wearin', coffee-shop lovin', wife and momma. She serves in the worship ministry with her husband at their home church in Glendale, AZ and writes with the sole purpose of pointing others to Christ. You can catch up with her on her blog or via social @b_brdshw!
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